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~ There's JOY in the Kitchen ~
~When we realize that ~
Our relationships with others are reflections of our relationship with God.

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A Word from JoyfulArt

The day had been a long one and I had laid down to just rest a few 'winks'. My husband was in the study and it seemed 'safe' for me to do just that. Ahhhhhhhhh, the first few moments were like heaven as I relaxed my body and mind. Thoughts began to drift and my breathing slowed. Silently the cat sneaked up onto me and began to knead my waist as she had decided to join me in my little 'cat' nap.

Suddenly the door slammed downstairs and I heard a loud childish voice yell "MOM!!!!!! I'M HOME!!!!!!" "Maybe if I ignore them they will go away" I mumbled to myself in my dreamy, but startled state. My heart was racing as the next child entered the house and I heard the first squeal with frustration as her brother did something stinky. I sighed.

Big brother came to the rescue as I heard his muffled voice instructing them to be quiet, Mom was resting. . . . . Silence. Finally I sighed again, not realizing that I had been holding my breath. Waiting for my heart to stop it's frantic beat, I again allowed my mind to drift and my body to relax. At long last I left the land of the living and floated out into oblivion.

"AAAAHHHHHRRRRRR!" came the blood curdling scream. "STOP IT!!!" Then silence once again. Determinedly I squeazed out the next hour of my rest rising to the surface again and again to peels of laughter and blood-curdling screams of frustration. "No rest for the wicked", I growled to myself envisioning strangling them both as I arose and went down the stairs.

There the little angels were, sitting on opposite ends of the couch giggling and looking innocent as if nothing had happened. I love 'em. I could strangle them, but I love 'em. Where was dear hubby during all of this you ask? Where any other loving father would be, in the recliner sound asleep. He wasn't shaken by their struggles, he knows that eventually they will work it all out. It's a part of growing up.

How our loving Father puts up with us I will never know. Don't you know that even though we may not be shouting out all our thoughts, they reach His ears anyway. It must be maddening to Him, to be bombarded by a zillion selfish children's thoughts all expressing anger, opinions, judgements and criticizms. How pleasing it must be to have the sounds of tender love and forgiveness reach His majestic ears. Perhaps this is one of the things that are meant in Heb 3:18 ." . . .And to whom did He swear that they would not enter His rest, but to those who did not obey?" Read the whole chapter. It refers to mumbling complaining ungrateful children. His children. How could they ever understand His rest or enter in when they are so churned within their hearts with bitterness? His rest is one that He dwells in. One of gentleness, peace, patience, kindness, self-control, love and joy.

If we are tired, perhaps we should re-examine why we are not entering His rest. . . . 'eh?

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You know the depth of loving by the degree of giving.

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WASH ME!!!
By HoldOn2Him

As I walked out into the parking ramp where my car is parked during the day, I noticed something that annoys me every time I see it. On the back of a black vehicle were the words "wash me." Someone used their clean finger and took it upon themselves to make known that this car was dirty. I looked at that and thought of how angry I would have been had that been my car. The rest of the day this silly little phrase stuck in my mind. The more I thought about it the angrier I became.

I wanted to sit in the parking ramp until the one who committed the crime of making the dirt known was apprehended. How dare this individual make the filth of another so obvious? What right did they have to do this? What if someone did that to my car? Then the whole world would know that my car was dirty. Before anyone makes a mark in the dirt, not a soul will notice it. Take your finger and swipe away dirt in just one place and the whole world notices. ItŐs kind of like the dust on our TV screens. (yes, ours gets dusty).

Well, I did recover from this parking ramp incident and did go home. However, my brain was not yet done with this little brain wave. In my prayers and introspection of late, I have been doing a little heart cleansing. I asked the Lord to begin showing me areas that needed to be cleansed. Unlike the incident with the car, God did not swipe His finger across my heart exposing the dirt to the whole world. He is. with His Word, showing me that I too need to be cleansed. Psalm 51:10 Create in me a clean heart oh God, and renew a right spirit within me. As I look at this simple request I am mindful of one thing. In order for God to create a clean heart . . . I MUST make room for the transformation. In order to make room, there are some things that must go. As these things move out, His Holy Spirit will gently fill those places.

As 1998 begins, I challenge you to look deep within your own heart and to begin asking God to wash you.

Much Love to you in Christ Jesus,
Amo

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ANNOUNCING!!

SPECIAL ADDITION Joy In The Kitchen Newsletters Once a month beginning the first of January, you will receive a SPECIAL EDITION of the JITK highlighting the Theme Topic Chat for that month. In these SPECIAL EDITIONS, you will read testimonies of people who have been set free from various bondages and trials in their lives, as well as from those who still find themselves groping in the dark trying to find their way out. Included will be Web Sites, and books as well as various resources which will help you.

You may be struggling with a particular issue yourself and feel that you are all alone, or have a family member or friend or congregational member which is crying out for help. It is our wish that this information will help open your eyes and better facillitate deliverance and give hope.

Due to the nature of these chats and topics, all names, unless otherwise requested will be kept confidential. You are welcome to come in anonymous screen names to chats that you feel might be of particular interest to you, and if you are needing to connect with other ministries or HAVE aparticular ministry which you would like to network with Sarah's Tent for this purpose, please contact me, Shannon Parish at JoyfulArt@aol.com.

BEGINNING IN JANUARY 1998 Sarah's Tent will be hosting very special theme chats. Some of the topics will be very challenging. The purpose of this is to open our eyes and better equipt us to minister to the lost and wounded. Not only will there be special guest speakers, the chats will be open to all who participate in this ministry. Resources will be provided for you at the time of each chat as well. Our topics will be areas such as, Homosexuality in the church (this will be for the first three weeks of January), Eating Disorders in February, then topics such as Grief Counseling, Alcoholism, Suicide, Physical Challenges, Ministry Marriages, Finances, and the list goes on. You name it, you request it, and we will do all that we can to bring it before you.

These chats will run along side the open chats on Monday nights, but in a separate private room. Because of the sensitivity of some of the subjects, if you feel more comfortable in entering the room under an anonymous screen name, you may do so. The purpose will always be to bring salt and light to ALL of those who are dealing with dark areas in their lives, families, or congregations.

For more information, please contact JoyfulArt or Tcmah96 for a schedule of the chats.

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The root of giving is loving

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LETTERS PENNED FROM FAR AWAY

Perhaps you may not know that there are several Pastors Wives and Missionaries (or Foreign Ambassadors) connected with Sarah's Tent. We have sisters in Albania, Indonesia, and Africa. All too often it is easy to forget to pray, or support in other ways our fellow Ambassadors who give up all to go out on the foreign mission field.

This portion of the Joy In The Kitchen newsletter is reserved for letters from our sisters on the mission field. I encourage you, if you are one of these faithful few, to please write and let us know about your country and all that you desire to share about your life there.

Drop them a line and let them know they are not forgotten.
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Submitted by PetraB1033

You are probably aware of the three New Tribes missionaries that have been kept hostage by the guerillas since Janary, 31, 1993. One of my friends with New Tribes Mission keeps me posted on the situation and I thought you might be interested.

The wives of the three hostages were recently on the Larry King Live show and on the NBC Today Show. They are trying to get more public exposure to the situation.

NTM RELEASE #54 - TUESDAY, DECEMBER 30, 1997 FROM: NEW TRIBES MISSION CRISIS MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE TO: NTM FAMILY AND FRIENDS

Regional elections have taken place in spite of attempts by the guerrillas to halt them. They have, however, through murder, kidnapping and extortion, affected the outcome in many outlying areas. Even now the killing has not stopped as newly elected politicians are being targeted for assassination. We expect a calm through the holiday period to mid-January and then begins the storm leading up to national elections in May. In the midst of all this violence our missionaries are working tirelessly in Bogota to accomplish Bible translation and teaching material projects. It's difficult to maintain motivation and to acquire fresh language help when they have to work from the city. Pray that God would grant them encouragement to continue their labors.

Over the last two months we've received still other reports, two from foreign government officials, that FARC has admitted to them that they have our men. Again this is not legal proof of life but it continues to add weight to the hope that Dave, Rick and Mark are still alive. The wives have been running ragged these past 2 months. Upon their return from England where they spoke at a human rights conference and met with Amnesty International, they were whisked off to Venezuela for a major heads of state conference on human rights. While they were not allowed to address the leaders from all over Latin America, Spain nd Portugal, they were able to meet personally with many leaders. During these private meetings the wives were able to secure promises of assistance from at least 5 critical countries whom we believe have some influence with FARC. We were also able to enlist the aid of the news media. We had major TV, radio and newspaper coverage within Venezuela and some reporters came down from the U.S. solely to cover the story of the NTM missionaries.

Since returning to the US in mid-October the wives have been trying their best to satisfy all the media demands for interviews. Many of you saw their appearance on Larry King Live and some saw them on the 700 Club. They are scheduled to appear on NBC Today Show on January 2 and featured on Dobson's Focus on the Family on January 12. Other secular and Christian media requests are coming in and we appreciate the coverage this case is getting. We are trusting that it will validate our case in the eyes of governments and human rights groups when we approach them for assistance. We also hope that FARC is feeling some pressure from all this and becomes willing to release our men in order to avoid further negative exposure.

This is a tough time for the wives, children and other family members. Not only have they faced another Christmas without their loved one but January 31 marks the 5th year our men have been held. That will be a tough time as well. Add to that all the travel and media demands on the wives and you have a formula for some very exhausted ladies, both physically and emotionally. Please remember to pray for the families especially during this holiday season and the upcoming kidnapping anniversary date. Also pray for us on the Crisis Team as we seek to develop and manage these media events to further a strategy we trust the Lord will use to see our men released. This holiday season is a time of hope and we maintain our hope that our Lord will accomplish His purpose and return Dave, Rick and Mark to us and their families. Thank you for standing by us in prayer and finances throughout this past year. Your prayers are not in vain and we appreciate your participation with us as we seek together God's hand in securing the release of our dear brothers. May it be soon.

NEW TRIBES MISSION
1000 E. First St.
Sanford, FL 32771-1487
(407) 323-3430 - Fax (407) 330-0376
E-Mail - ntm@ntm.org


Thanks for praying. One of these men has children who do not remember him.
Brenda
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Heb 13:3
3 Remember the prisoners as if chained with them-- those who are mistreated--
since you yourselves are in the body also.
(NKJ)

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Your care for others
is the measure
of your greatness.
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Gal 5:1
Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and do
not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage.

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POT LUCK!

BEST EVER LEMON PIE
By RevrndSkip

1 BAKED 9-INCH PIE SHELL
1 1/4 CUPS SUGAR
6 TABLESPOONS CORNSTARCH
2 CUPS WATER
1/3 CUP LEMON JUICE
3 EGG YOLKS
1 1/2 TEASPOONS LEMON EXTRACT
2 TEASPOONS VINEGER
3 TABLESPOONS BUTTER

Mix sugar and cornstarch together in the top of a double boiler. Add the two
cups of water. Combine egg yolks with lemon juice and beat until well mixed.
Add to the rest of the sugar mixture. Cook over boiling water until thick,
about 25 minutes. This does away with the starchy taste. Now add the lemon
extract, butter and vinegar, and stir thoroughly. Pour mixture into deep
9-inch pie shell, and let cool. Cover with meringue, brown in oven.

NEVER FAIL MERINGUE

1 TABLESPOON CORNSTARCH
2 TABLESPOONS COLD WATER
* CUP BOILING WATER
3 EGGS WHITES
6 TABLESPOONS SUGAR
1 TABLESPOON VANILLA
PINCH OF SALT

Blend cornstarch and cold water in a saucepan. Add boiling water, and cook,
stirring until clear and thickened. Let stand until COMPLETELY cold. With
electric beater at high speed, beat egg whites until foamy. Gradually add
sugar and beat until stiff but not dry. Turn mixer to low speed; add salt and
vanilla. Gradually beat in cold cornstarch mixture. Turn mixture again to
high, and beat well. Spread meringue over cooled pie filling. Bake at 350
degrees for 10 minutes or until top is lightly browned.

For even MORE recipes, click on these!! More Recipes and Once-a-Month Cooking (OAMC)

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Common courtesy prevails in peaceful homes.

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~ PRAYER ~
Please send prayer request to C.O.P.E. Ministries (Christians Online Praying by Email) in care of Mama Brrr@AOL.com

DON'T FORGET TO LET THEM KNOW YOUR PRAISE REPORTS!! BAMPRAYER@aol.com

For special prayer JUST for marriages. This is a ministry from Born Again Marriages. If you would like to visit their web page. . . click here: BAMWEB

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Really Important Stuff Kids Have Taught Me
Submitted by Pattie

1. It's more fun to color outside the lines.
2. If you're gonna draw on the wall, do it behind the couch.
3. Ask why until you understand.
4. Hang on tight.
5. Even if you've been fishing for 3 hours and haven't gotten anything except poison ivy and a sunburn, you're still better off than the worm.
6. Make up the rules as you go along.
7. It doesn't matter who started it.
8. Ask for sprinkles.
9. If the horse you're drawing looks more like a dog, make it a dog.
10. Save a place in line for your friends.
11. Sometimes you have to take the test before you've finished studying.
12. If you want a kitten, start out asking for a horse.
13. Picking your nose when no one else is looking is still picking your nose.
14. Just keep banging until someone opens the door.
15. Making your bed is a waste of time.
16. There is no good reason why clothes have to match.
17. Even Popeye didn't eat his spinach until he absolutely had to.
18. You work so hard peddling up the hill that you hate to brake on the way down.
19. You can't ask to start over just because you're losing the game.

Posted From [GCFL Good Clean Funnies List]

Submitted to PattieRWR by one of my buddies who just got her husband back in church after six years of marriage, Praise the Lord! The Most Important Thing I Know...

"My grandmother told me that every good thing I do helps some human being in the world. I believed her fifty years ago and I still do." ~Maya Angelou Poet

"The only thing that separates any one of us from excellence is fear, and the opposite of fear is faith. I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence I can reach for, perfection is God's business." ~Michael J. Fox Actor

The quotes above are from the book The Most Important Thing I Know, edited by Lorne A. Adrain. It's available online BarnesandNoble@aol The World's Largest Bookseller Online Home Page for around $10.

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CHUCKLES
In response to last week's article on "Hair". . . . this comes from AndreaLou:

I have three girls and BOY OH BOY could I identify with your tale.

I didn't "listen" to my little Lorrie Anne when she kept telling me she wanted her hair short. Last July 3rd, our little Miss Independence cut her own hair while I was at the grocery store. I had to take her to the salon to even it out as much as possible, but on her 5th birthday--the very next day--she was all grins and giggles--FREEDOM.

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