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It is His church and His people __________________________________________________________________
A weekly newsletter from Sarah's Tent, an online ministry tailored towards Pastor's Wives.
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Isa 51:1-2 / Isa 54:2-3 / Heb 10:24 ,25
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POSSESSING THE LAND
By JoyfulArt

Deut 11:10-17
10 "For the land which you go to possess is not like the land of Egypt from which you have come,

As Pastors, we see "land" that needs to be possessed with the Kingdom of God. That land may be as broad as government issues that affect the whole of the United States, or the state you live in. Your land could be the city or town that you live in, or it may mean something even more abstract, such as the marriages in your community. Whatever the call of God is on your church body, THAT is the land that the Lord your God has called you to possess. This land is not like the world. It may be in the world, but to possess it for God's Kingdom requires Kingdom strategy, not the strategy of worldly systems. where you sowed your seed and watered it by foot, as a vegetable garden;

11 "but the land which you cross over to possess is a land of hills and valleys, which drinks water from the rain of heaven,

There are highs and lows in possessing this Kingdom land of His, and it is nourished by the Word of God and His guidance which comes directly from the throne room of Heaven. All the things that you desire to accomplish in your kingdom can not be done with ways of man. This Kingdom must be conquered by Godly, supernatural means, again, not natural means. All the building programs and advertising campaigns in the world will never measure up to doing things God's way. How easy it is to ignore what God is saying to us and directing us to do because it does not make sense, causing us to say out loud, "That just isn't the way things are done!" (How right you are!! If God did things the way that man thought they should happen, man would get the credit, and God would be forgotten, then where would we be?)

12 "a land for which the LORD your God cares; the eyes of the LORD your God are always on it, from the beginning of the year to the very end of the year.

God watches over this Land of HIS. He cares for His subjects and His eyes go to and fro constantly from end to end of that which is His. Nothing escapes His notice. From the beginning of a thing to the end , God will see His plans out to the harvest.

13 'And it shall be that if you earnestly obey My commandments which I command you today, to love the LORD your God and serve Him with all your heart and with all your soul,

This is not as easy as we think it is!! We are a proud people, and when you care as much as a pastor, giving your whole life to the call that is on your life, you may be tempted to possess that which does not belong to you. God has called us to be focused upon obeying His voice and commandments, the greatest of these to be to LOVE GOD & SERVE HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART. Not to love the ministry, not to love the title you now possess, or the fame you think you have. Nothing else matters in this life than to Love our God with all our hearts, souls, minds and bodies. To love Him and to serve Him in that love...taking no credit for ourselves, nor demanding that things be done our way. But releasing ownership to the rightful owner and obeying whatever it is that HE tells us to do with the Kingdom He has given us to watch over.

14 'then I will give you the rain for your land in its season, the early rain and the latter rain, that you may gather in your grain, your new wine, and your oil.

When we give up ownership of this land, and do all that He commands us to do, without our puny plans interfering, God will rain His Spirit upon His land. He will sustain the land with His early rain, and His later rain so that you may be productive in all that you do in the ministry that God has called you to. This is so that you will be productive in all you do, and TRULY make a difference.

15 'And I will send grass in your fields for your livestock, that you may eat and be filled.'

Pastors and their families suffering, churches not able to meet mortgages, apathy, and lack of growth is hardly a sign that the land which was given to them is blessed and prospering. Perhaps it is time to take a look at the way we do things. Good intentions and hard work may be a good thing, but is it a GOD thing? Is what you are doing really what GOD has told you to do? Is the mortgage on your building worth the life that is being sucked out of you and your people? Did God tell you to pay for that building at all costs, forsaking the work of the ministry, salvations, healings and growth of people? How easy it is to become so focused on money issues which are temporal, and totally forget eternal issues, such as the forgotten children, the marriages falling apart, and a community that is Godless and crime ridden! Where are our priorities? How often do we find ourselves beating our heads against the wall with strife and frustration in our congregations because of the pressures of ministry?

But wait!!

16 "Take heed to yourselves, lest your heart be deceived, and you turn aside and serve other gods and worship them,

Could it be that we have turned aside and begun to worship other gods? In not taking care of ourselves with a life filled with the love of our God, rest, peace and obedience to what HE has commanded us to do, have we turned astray and begun to serve other gods? How about the god of prosperity? "The more people I have the more we can buy and the more we will have what we need....(or is it desire)" What are we focusing on? THINGS to fill our own desires? Or ALL THAT WE NEED to fulfill the call upon our lives, lacking nothing?

What about the god of fame and glory? In our desire to be a validated being, have we slipped into the witchcraft of control and manipulation over Gods people, accepting glory which does not belong to us? God forbid!! This is a fearful place to be!!

How about something as simple as a good old fashioned work ethic? We care and are men and women of integrity, totally devoted to serving our God....or is it "our god"? There never seems to be enough time to spend with our families and the work at the church is never done. We grow angry at the people because they do not want to help. There is no joy in what we do, and we are constantly exhausted and poor in spirit. Now tell me, what is in our countenance that would cause our people to WANT to work in the ministry? Who are you serving? Who told you to do all that you are doing? Is this something YOU have put upon yourself and why? "Take heed to yourselves.." What is your TRUE motive? To have a big church? To be well known? To speak on radio and television? To be able to hold your head up in meetings where other pastors compare the size of THEIR work? (Lord God, forgive us!!)

17 "lest the LORD'S anger be aroused against you, and He shut up the heavens so that there be no rain, and the land yield no produce, and you perish quickly from the good land which the LORD is giving you.

Have we found ourselves in a place where God does not seem to be listening to us? Nothing that we do is prospering? Apathy, control and strife are running rampant? We are exhausted and without hope, wondering what in the world we are doing behind the pulpit in the first place? Have we left our first love? Are the rains being held back for a reason? Are you perishing?

Luke 8:14
14 "And the ones that fell among thorns are those who, when they have heard, go out and are choked with cares, riches, and pleasures of life, and bring no fruit to maturity.

Precious brothers and sisters in the ministry. Jesus said that HIS yoke was easy, and HIS burden light. He said that HE came to give us LIFE and give it more abundantly. If we are not experiencing HIM in our lives, and to give out the Word to God's people is no longer a joy to us....could it be that we have not taken heed to OURSELVES and have begun to serve other gods? Marriages in ministry take a terrible beating and church splits are common place. Perhaps it is WE who need to take a look at our own hearts...and not point the finger to those God has placed in our care. If the land that was given to us is not yielding life, grain, grapes and new wine, then perhaps the windows of Heaven have been shut up for a reason. Perhaps it is time to HUMBLE OURSELVES. (In other words, get off our thrones and give up the reign to the King of kings and the Lord of lords. After all, WHOSE Kingdom is it anyway?)

1 Pet 5:6-11
Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world. But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you. To Him be the glory and the dominion forever and ever. Amen.

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Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord and He shall lift you up James 4:10
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Chosen Vessel
(Submitted by: Bdwchr)

The Master was searching for a vessel to use;
On the shelf there were many - which one would He choose?
Take me, cried the gold one, I’m shiny and bright,
I’m of great value and I do things just right.
My beauty and lustre will outshine the rest
And for someone like You, Master, gold would be the best!

The Master passed on with no word at all;
He looked at a silver urn, narrow and tall;
I’ll serve You, dear Master, I’ll pour out Your wine
And I’ll be at Your table whenever You dine,
My lines are so graceful, my carvings so true,
And my silver will always compliment You.

Unheeding the Master passed on to the brass,
It was widemouthed and shallow, and polished like glass.
Here! Here! cried the vessel, I know I will do,
Place me on Your table for all men to view.

Look at me, called the goblet of crystal so clear,
My transparency shows my contents so dear,
Though fragile am I, I will serve You with pride,
And I’m sure I’ll be happy in Your house to abide.

The Master came next to a vessel of wood,
Polished and carved, it solidly stood.
You may use me, dear Master, the wooden bowl said,
But I’d rather You used me for fruit, not for bread!

Then the Master looked down and saw a vessel of clay.
Empty and broken it helplessly lay.
No hope had the vessel that the Master might choose,
To cleanse and make whole, to fill and to use.

Ah! This is the vessel I’ve been hoping to find,
I will mend and use it and make it all Mine.
I need not the vessel with pride of its self;
Nor the one who is narrow to sit on the shelf;
Nor the one who is bigmouthed and shallow and loud;
Nor one who displays his contents so proud;
Not the one who thinks he can do all things just right;
But this plain earthy vessel filled with My power and might.

Then gently He lifted the vessel of clay.
Mended and cleansed it and filled it that day.
Spoke to it kindly. There’s work you must do,
Just pour out to others as I pour into you.

Author Unknown

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It is through the cracks that we shine Patsy Clairmont
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The Gardener
By: Sharon Sparks

I peeked through the curtains at the garden that grew outside my window and cringed. A mosaic of cracks in the hard-packed dirt held brown, brittle weeds, or were they once flowers? Impossible to tell. It was surrounded by a high brick wall with an old rusty gate. No one would ever open that gate again. The whole scene was lifeless and offered no hope that it could ever be anything else.

I was startled by the doorbell. "Who is it?"

"I am the Gardener," a voice answered. "The Gardener? I don't have a Gardener." I said, as I opened the door. "How do you know I have a garden?"

"My Father created your garden," he said, "Each one He creates is unique and has a special purpose."

"But it is completely dead. I have ruined it."

"None are hopeless. Ask me to come in and I will restore your garden for its original purpose."

"No, I think this is hopeless." I closed the door. "That Gardener cannot ring this place back to life," I said out loud.

I passed several days without thinking about my garden. But one morning, I could not ignore it. The hopelessness of the garden pushed in all around me. I could see only wasted life, dead dreams, and dried-up hopes. Nothing in that garden was redeemable. Nothing.

He said he could restore this garden, but once he saw it, he would say, "I'm sorry, I was wrong. I did not realize how bad your garden was. It is not worth saving." I sat down on an old bench and began to cry. "Oh, Gardener, I want to believe you could save my garden." I heard a rusty creak and lifted my head. The gate was opening! The Gardener stood outside.

"How did you know I wanted to see you?"

"I heard you ask for me."

He began to look around my garden. I watched his face to see the inevitable look of disappointment and resignation. He raised his eyes to mine and I saw... joy! He was smiling! I looked around and wondered what he saw that could make him smile. I was afraid to ask him what he thought of my garden, but anxious to know if he really could save it. I could not speak.

"I would love to save this garden," he said quietly.

I felt a swelling of certainty that he could save my garden. That he wanted to save my garden, and that he loved the garden his Father had created.

"Oh, please," I cried, "please come in and save my garden. Show me your Father's original purpose!" I held out my hand and invited him inside.

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Wise people store up knowledge, but the mouth of the foolish is near destruction Prov. 10:14 NKJV
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Host for this time is: Carol (Justaservn)
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Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, And uphold me by Your generous spirit Ps 51:12 NKJV
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CHUCKLES
(From: Justaservn) When my daughter was about five years old we came out of church on a Sunday morning into quite a summer storm. Most of the congregation was huddled together on the front steps of the church when to my great chagrin my daughter says in a loud and melodious voice, "Look Mommy ... it's raining like hail!"

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After church on Sunday morning, a young boy suddenly announced to his mother, "Mom, I've decided I'm going to be a minister when I grow up. That's okay with us," the mother said, "But what made you decide to be a minister?" "Well," the boy replied, "I'll have to go to church on Sunday anyway, and I figure it will be more fun to stand up and yell than to sit still and listen.

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Joy In The Kitchen is an extension of Sarah's Tent An online ministry devoted to gathering together God's silent warriors, the wives of pastors and ministers of all denominations and cultural backgrounds, as well as their families, for fellowship, support, laughter and prayer. Isa 51:1-2 / Isa 54:2-3 / Heb 10:24-25

 

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