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~ There's JOY in the Kitchen ~
~When we realize that ~
We Are NOT Responsible For How The World Turns
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A weekly newsletter from Sarah's Tent, an online ministry tailored towards Pastor's Wives. _______________________

Isa 51:1-2 / Isa 54:2-3 / Heb 10:24, 25
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Garment Exchange
By JoyfulArt

Imagine if you will, a person holding in their arms a glorious robe of praise. Their heart is pure and joyous before the Lord, filled with compassion and love for God's Kingdom, His creation, and His children. This faithful saint is making the journey to the Holy of Holies. This is the love of their life, to bow before the King of Heaven and worship Him without reservation. How the heart of this saint soars as each step is taken. Lightly, almost as if in dance each foot touches the earth in rhythm to the song that is bursting forth in his heart.

A stranger steps out from the shadows and weeping bitterly stops the saint and bears his heart of pain. Over his back lies a rotting, moth eaten cloth, the burden of it almost breaking his weary back. Our faithful saint removes the fraying cloth and lightens the load of this stranger, giving him hope in return. God is pleased.

Further on down the road a dear friend runs to catch up with our traveling saint and joins with him, side by side. Conversation passes between the two as the friend complains about his lot in life and the garment he is wearing. The saint's smile begins to fade and his steps slow down. Stopping in the road our saint gives his friend his full attention. After all, they are covenant brothers and this friend needs his help. The cloth that had come from the previous stranger begins to itch as the fleas it contains begin to roam through the saints clothing and hair nearly driving him mad with frustration as he takes on the burden of his friend.

The friend waves goodbye and trots off the path. Taking another step, the saint stumbles and falls, catching himself with the palms of his hands. Looking down he notices that the garment his friend was wearing is heavier than he had expected. His heart weary, he reasons out in his mind that at least his friend's load is lighter.

Shifting his load, the saint carries on. His goal of reaching the Holy of Holies feels further away than he had originally thought. A loud distraction takes his eyes off the road and he witnesses the conflict of a couple of neighbors, screaming and flailing fists at one another. Pausing in his journey, the saint crosses the road and comes to the neighbor's fence. "Excuse me," he calls out, "Can I be of assistance?" The man yells back to him all that is wrong with his wife, as his wife throws a wet, heavy blanket at the saint shouting at him to mind his own business. Helplessly the saint trudges on, taking note that not only is he carrying the strangers diseased cloth, and his friends garment, but the wet, filthy blanket the woman threw, the weight of which is causing him to stumble.

Moaning, the saint presses on, his burdens getting heavier by the mile, his destiny appearing farther and farther away. The song in his heart has long faded the notes but a distant memory. Tears begin to trickle down his face as the fleas from the stranger's cloth make their way into the folds of cloth over his bosom. Scratching the area over his heart anger rises from within that he had not noticed before. "This is a lousy lot" he fumes.

"Here I am on my way to worship God and trying to bring some cheer along the way to the people I meet and look at me! He calls me to love them and to care for them, but these clothes that are handed to me are diseased and rotten, and I feel like I'm going to break under the load!" He glares at the unforgiving sky as another gust of wind kicks up some dust, stinging his eyes and wrapping yet another rag blown in from who knows where around his neck and shoulders.

His steps, having gotten slower with the added weight of each rotting piece of cloth, are now dragging, accenting the bow of his burden laden back. Despair now clouds his mind as he tries desperately to remember why he was on the path he was on, and why. Didn't God care? Hadn't he shown care and concern over his brothers and sister? Why then was he feeling faint and ever so weary? The glorious robe he had been carrying had become such a burden that he was tempted to throw it down, yet something stayed his hand.

A gentle breeze tosses his hair and brushes a sweet fragrance across his cheeks, replacing the bitter winds which had become his companion. "Put on the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness..." The words weave their way through his clouded mind. "But I have taken these burdens to carry for YOUR glory God!" Bitterly he points out his faithfulness and the sacrifice he has made for God.

Again..."Put on the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness...lift up your voice to God!"

"Put on the garment of praise?" Bravely the saint stands and unfolding the glorious garment he has been carrying, he tosses it in the air trying in vain to duck under it's folds. Reaching an arm in back of himself, he wrestles with the golden fabric in an attempt to pull it over his shoulders. But alas, the rotten, smelly rags he is carrying has made standing upright impossible, let alone dressing in a garment so light and exacting.

"Put on the garment of praise FOR THE SPIRIT OF HEAVINESS..." An urging to let loose of the burdens he carrying presses in on his soul. "But I've been faithful!" he cries. "These burdens do not belong to you, Child" The voice is clear and firm.

Suddenly his heart is pricked and understanding comes to him. His error was in thinking that he and he alone could carry those burdens away. His was a sin of pride. Intending only good, he had forgotten the most vital part of worship that he could extend. That was the total trust in the Creator of the Universe, and a knowing that HE and HE ALONE was able to carry burdens.

To lift the burden of another was a good and righteous thing, but to keep that burden was disobedience. He had forgotten to cast those cares on the Lord. In his eagerness to please, he had made the gravest of sins. He had sacrificed that which had not been asked and had not obeyed what had been asked of him. "Oh Lord God!" he cried out. "Forgive me for not trusting you and for not obeying your commands!"

Leaping to his feet the saint thrust off the disgusting garments he had been carrying as his own. Joyously he casts the garment of praise over his shoulders and in an ecstatic leap and majestic twirl, new praise bursts forth from his lips as the song in his heart explodes in praise and worship to His God and King. Once again he laughs gloriously and joyously as he realizes that he is standing in none other than the Holy of Holies.

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Dear Saint,

Has your journey to the Holy of Holies gotten further and further out of your reach? As you have traveled on your path, faithfully serving your Lord, have you unwittingly taken on the burdens and cares of others only to forget to lay them at the foot of the cross?

Are you finding yourself mysteriously angry and frustrated, depressed and hopeless? Has your destiny become blurred and your vision limited? Where is the song in your heart? Where is your first love? Where is your trust in the Creator of the Universe? What have you taken on that did not belong to you? If you have only the best of intentions, is it that you thought you could do a better job than the King of kings and Lord of lords?

John 10:10
"I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." (KJV)

Isa 61:3
"...To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified." (KJV)

Satan loves to pervert the meaning of God's word to throw us into bondage. Be careful that you do not fall over the fine line between, "Gal 6:22 Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ." and "2 Tim 2:4 No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier."

There is a huge difference between having compassion on a brother and lifting his burden, and thinking that YOU are the answer to everything. Check your motives and purify your hearts. Pride comes in many disguises and loves to hide in the most innocent of places.

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Matt 11:28-30
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. (KJV)

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What's New?

Chats!
Hosted by Sarah's Tent and JITK Not only does Sarah's Tent host private chats for pastors wives and ministry people, we are beginning more chats that are open to all. If you are interested in these chats and would like to receive a schedule plus room links, please write us at: SarahsTent@aol.com At this time we are offering a Bible Study on Saturday nights and a Sexual Abuse support chat on Friday nights.

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Letters to the Editor

The following letter comes from Karinlaine@aol.com who's husband was killed instantly a little over a month ago when he and the rest of the family were in an accident on a rain drenched road. Karin has been gracious enough to continue to update us with her family's progress in healing from this horrible event in their lives, and in giving praise to God for His faithfulness.

Hello Sisters!

Many of you have asked how my kids and I are doing since the death of my husband. I thought I'd better write ya'll and give you an update.

First of all I want to thank all of you for your prayers. I have felt them intensely. In fact, I believe that they are the only things that are keeping me going. Keep it up!

Our physical injuries are doing much, much better. My daughter got her cast off, although the Dr. says that her leg is not completely healed yet. She will go in to get another X-ray on the 21st to see when she can start dancing again. Please pray that it will be good news. Dancing is a huge part of her life and it's killing her not to be able to participate.

We were very worried about my youngest, who is two. She just wouldn't stop limping and we could not determine what the injury was. I finally took her to a pediatric orthopedist who specializes in the after effects of car accidents. He said that most likely her pelvis was extremely bruised but that there should be no long term damage. Lo and behold, he was right! She has almost stopped limping now and my mind is eased considerably.

My injuries are also doing better. A CAT scan showed that my fractured skull is almost completely healed. I have only a week left to spend in the dreaded collar! (Do I hear the Hallelujah Chorus???) My bruises are almost gone and so are my hematomas. I'm gonna have some very funky looking scars on my left leg, but I can live with that. My foot is healing very slowly, as predicted. The only way to speed it up is to stay completely off of it. Yeah, right!! As it is, I can get a regular shoe on it if I do it first thing in the morning. If I try to wait a bit, no way. It hurts and swells, especially toward the end of the day. But, once I can get rid of the collar, I can handle just about anything.

Emotionally, things are hard. As I focus less on physical hurts, the emotional pain is more evident. I miss my husband very, very much. He was my best friend and I keep wanting to pick up the phone and tell him what's going on. I cry a lot, especially in the car and late at night.

The kids are doing OK emotionally. It helps that the older two are kept busy with school, soccer and other activities. We can talk about Daddy freely and remember the happy stuff without a lot of tears. They can talk to me about it when they feel like crying. This is good. The thing that tears my heart out, though, is when the baby starts walking around looking for Daddy or is waiting by the front window for him to come home. How do you explain to a two year old that Daddy is never coming home? Mainly I've just been saying "He's not here." Then I have to go somewhere a cry a bit.

Most of the physical injuries are past, the emotional ones are here, but there are big challenges ahead. My attorneys have finished the petition and we file suit next week. This is not something we wanted, but were forced into by the insurance company. We are going to have to relive the accident again and again during this process. They are even talking about putting my oldest (9) daughter on the stand. Please pray for us as we deal with this. Pray that things will go unusually quickly and that a settlement will be reached before we have to go to trial.

That's about it. We are healing and dealing with things the best we can. With the help of your prayers, I think we are doing rather well.

I love you all!
Karin

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Shannon,

Thanks once again for the powerful uplifting articles and encouraging words in your newsletter. It continued to be a real blessing.

As we returned from Albania during this last civil unrest, we are ever more thankful for God's grace and mercy we experience each day. The political situation became too tense to continue there so we have come home to reestablish and allow our daughter to finish her high school in the states. She is in 11th grade. This is an unplanned time in the US but we are confident the God has a reason and a plan for our life.

Please remember the many missionaries who are still there to let His light shine.

Debbie
HFTW@MAF.Org

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Your children learn more of your faith during the bad times than they do during the good times.
Beverly LaHaye
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POT LUCK!

CABBAGE AND BEEF SOUP

1 lb. lean ground beef
1/2 tsp garlic salt
1/4 tsp garlic powder
2 stalks chopped celery
1 16 oz. Can kidney beans (drained)
1/2 medium sized head cabbage (chopped)
1 28 oz can tomatoes (chopped)
1 28 oz tomato can of water
4 beef bullion cubes
small amount of chopped fresh parsley

Brown the beef in a small Dutch oven, add the remaining then cook until the cabbage and celery is tender.

You can find this recipe and others at: Doffycook's Nethome

For even MORE recipes, click on these!! More Recipes and Once-a-Month Cooking (OAMC)

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Contact Sarah's Tent at SarahsTent@aol.com , and not only will we pray, but your request will be sent to the proper prayer chains as well. Just be sure to send your praise report when God moves on your behalf!!

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CHUCKLES
Sent in by JMT214

Influencing The Jury

Murphy, a dishonest lawyer, bribed a man on his client's jury to hold out for a charge of manslaughter, as opposed to the charge of murder which was brought by the state.

The jury was out for several days before they returned with the manslaughter verdict.

When Murphy paid the corrupt juror, he asked him if he had a very difficult time convincing the other jurors to see things his way.

"Sure did," the juror replied, "the other eleven wanted to acquit."
Sent by: JDValdivia

Mr. Johnson, a businessman from Wisconsin, went on a business trip to Louisiana. He immediately sent an e-mail back home to his wife, Jennifer. Unfortunately, he mistyped a letter and the e-mail ended up going to a Mrs.Joan Johnson, the wife of a preacher who had just passed away.

The preacher's wife took one look at the e-mail and promptly fainted. When she was finally revived, she nervously pointed to the message, which read: "Arrived safely, but it sure is hot down here."

Sent by: reecreat@compumise.com

The Birds & Bees .... from AngeIStarz

One day little Johnnie came up to his father and asked, "Dad, where did I come from?" Dad squirmed a bit, but thought it was time his son knew the facts of life. So, Dad told his son how the expression of love resulted in the beginning of life, how life developed in the womb and finally how a child was born. As Dad told the story, his son's eyes got wider and wider.

When Dad was finished, his son said, "Wow, that's really neat. That sure beats what Billy told me. He said that he came from Akron."
Sent by: SamC400

Christian Bear

A country preacher decided to skip services one Sunday and head to the hills to do some bear hunting. As he rounded the corner on a perilous twist in the trail, he and a bear collided, sending him and his rifle tumbling down the mountainside. Before he knew it, his rifle went one way and he went the other, landing on a rock and breaking both legs. That was the good news. The bad news was the ferocious bear charging at him from a distance, and he couldn't move.

"Oh, Lord," the preacher prayed, "I'm so sorry for skipping services today to come out here and hunt. Please forgive me and grant me just one wish ... please make a Christian out of that bear that's coming at me. Please, Lord!"

That very instant, the bear skidded to a halt, fell to its knees, clasped its paws together and began to pray aloud right at the preacher's feet. "Dear God, bless this food I am about to receive..."
Sent by: SamC400

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Pattie's Picks
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This is a great way to get involved with Internet issues in your church and with your children. "A coalition of government, community, civic, and corporate interests has designated September 14-20 as "Kids Online Week."  The nationwide event has been organized as a kick-off for a campaign to promote a safe and rewarding experience for children on the Internet. Schools, libraries, parents, teachers, and law enforcement officials all over the country have been encouraged to hold their own programs during that week and The weeks to follow to bring the event to the local level."

If you have any web sites you would like to recommend, please send them to PattieRWR (Pattie) We'll be happy to write reviews for the newsletter! __________________________________________________________________

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